tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136056672660705454.post3613515097205493611..comments2023-10-05T07:42:27.904-04:00Comments on I can't whistle: healingKatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12533501052787233233noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136056672660705454.post-31561590421345254312009-05-19T04:49:00.000-04:002009-05-19T04:49:00.000-04:00I admire so very much your grace under such awful ...I admire so very much your grace under such awful circumstances. I am glad to know you and your husband are there for each other and are willing to walk this path again right away. I wish you both all the best.IF Optimist, then...https://www.blogger.com/profile/11634482448223302535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136056672660705454.post-40386973860900350702009-05-18T19:52:00.000-04:002009-05-18T19:52:00.000-04:00gotta follow your heart, that is the only way in t...gotta follow your heart, that is the only way in this particular department. the pressure of the ticking clock is so awful, i HATE that feeling. but do try to remind yourself that it's not as if every month your chances are falling further off the charts. if it turns out you're not actually ready next month your odds are pretty much the same following month, and the one after that too. i know you know this but it's so hard not to let it get to you i figured it warranted a friendly reminder :)Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01587725139301198392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136056672660705454.post-11819789644242324262009-05-18T15:47:00.000-04:002009-05-18T15:47:00.000-04:00Glad your body is on the mend; I am finally feelin...Glad your body is on the mend; I am finally feeling like I am myself again the past few days (I'm a week ahead of you). I am going to cycle in June (43, so no more messin around here!) and today's b/w showed my HCG was 10. I am loving the drug-free me right now, and I hope you get there soon. Take the time your body needs, and if you're ready sooner than 3 months go for it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136056672660705454.post-57514525036822880832009-05-18T15:26:00.000-04:002009-05-18T15:26:00.000-04:00i'm glad you can feel the "healing" starting to ru...i'm glad you can feel the "healing" starting to runs through your veins. it takes such time for us to reset ourselves back. i'm so glad you are looking ahead, i'm looking out there along the horizon with you. <br /><br />and thank you so much for your sweet words the last few days.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136056672660705454.post-4435594030624722772009-05-18T14:17:00.000-04:002009-05-18T14:17:00.000-04:00Hey... thanks for your kind words on my blog. I wo...Hey... thanks for your kind words on my blog. I would totally understand if you couldn't be keeping up to date with me, and impressed that you have.<br /><br />Loving that you have plans. I think it helps so much in the healing to have something else to focus on.<br /><br />Wishing you the best of luck next time around!!onwardandsidewayshttp://onwardandsideways.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136056672660705454.post-64088765684240875782009-05-18T14:02:00.000-04:002009-05-18T14:02:00.000-04:00It's nice to have you and your intuitive blogging ...It's nice to have you and your intuitive blogging back. So glad you are jumping into it again. I have heard amazing things about CCRM and am considering them myself for the next round.Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17891984751397130045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136056672660705454.post-36349037941747049922009-05-18T13:03:00.000-04:002009-05-18T13:03:00.000-04:00I am so glad that you're feeling better and are re...I am so glad that you're feeling better and are ready to try again. You're doing a great job of listening to your body and heart. Keep it up and definitely blare that music whenever necessary :) <br /><br />I'm sending good thoughts to you!!Texasnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136056672660705454.post-34752551179018791962009-05-18T11:53:00.000-04:002009-05-18T11:53:00.000-04:00Our RE requires a 3 month waiting period in betwee...Our RE requires a 3 month waiting period in between pregnancies or losses. But, after our first loss, when we went for our consult, she asked if we wanted to wait longer. We'd really thought about it and our thoughts have always been the same. Our grief isnt going to just go away... It will always be there. Being pregnant or not doesnt take it away or even mitigate it. So, waiting 3 months or 3 years... We will still be here... in this place... That's how we've felt after our miscarriages and our infant losses. So, we press on. At some point, I know we'll have to stop, but we havent felt that yet... <br /><br />I'm glad that you have someone who understands and talks it with you. Listen to your heart.<br /><br />Sending you warm thoughts...Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136056672660705454.post-65304373322692331842009-05-18T10:50:00.000-04:002009-05-18T10:50:00.000-04:00My dear Kate,
I am so glad you are listening to y...My dear Kate,<br /><br />I am so glad you are listening to your body, mind, soul and hubby.<br /><br />I am all for going ahead with what is in your heart. <br /><br />Only you and hubby know what is right for you - you are listening to your body and if it is the right time then I say go for it!<br /><br />You will know the answer when the time comes.<br /><br />In the meantime - just know I am holding your hand to help you along the way!<br /><br />HUGSJB - A.K.A. Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06552394214853924040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136056672660705454.post-27228013137226061782009-05-18T10:41:00.000-04:002009-05-18T10:41:00.000-04:00What's the point in not trying? I say go for it. W...What's the point in not trying? I say go for it. Waiting is evil anyway, so why not a 2ww rather than waiting inactively? Plans are what keep us sane when we can not control anything else on this crazy IF ride, and it sounds like you have a good one. <br /><br />Keep singing your heart out. We'll be here to listen and support you.Grade Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14829925143186766680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136056672660705454.post-61266225263637078462009-05-17T23:40:00.001-04:002009-05-17T23:40:00.001-04:00To Sprog's final words I say hear hear! I so want ...To Sprog's final words I say hear hear! I so want babies for both of you. I can't imagine what you're going through right now. Instead I'm looking to the future and wishing for nothing but success and joy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136056672660705454.post-63330413228198988362009-05-17T23:40:00.000-04:002009-05-17T23:40:00.000-04:00Hi Kate, I am glad you are feeling a little better...Hi Kate, I am glad you are feeling a little better and also that you have started to think about what is next. That is always good and shows your strength. I would want to get started right away too.<br /><br />Thanks as always for your comments on my blog. I feel like you always know just what to say to make me feel better ;-) I can't tell you how much I appreciate that!! Have a good week.bbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06023389766965901094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136056672660705454.post-47977287598662273592009-05-17T22:25:00.000-04:002009-05-17T22:25:00.000-04:00Oh Kate, I'm so glad that you're feeling better ph...Oh Kate, I'm so glad that you're feeling better physically. I haven't had the heart to use up some of my internet cheapies, mostly because I <I>didn't</I> want to see that line. It's a bit of evasion that I'm probably going to pay for emotionally at some point down the line, but I just haven't felt able to really cope with the whole, "I was pregnant this time last month" thing yet. Easier to pretend it never happened.<br /><br />God that sounds sick when I write it out like this.<br /><br />And yeah, I'm with you. Get me pregnant now, damnit. If the body can take it, I can deal - I can blissfully, happily, healthily deal. I will admit to entertaining certain "what if I get pregnant naturally AGAIN?" fantasies, and being delighted that I ovulated on my right, "reamed out", side. Just in case. <br /><br />I'm glad you're going to try again. I so very much want to experience a successful pregnancy right alongside you. You've been my rock through this whole experience, and very selfishly, I would have been so saddened if you'd decided your heart had had enough. <br /><br />And you sound better. Not wholly healed, not wholly <I>whole</I>, but so much better. And that makes me so happy and grateful. You're in my thoughts, and I'm happy to be able to picture you singing, even if there are tears coming through on the sad songs. <br /><br />Now let's have us some babies, eh?Sprogbloggerhttp://www.sprogblogger.comnoreply@blogger.com